Sibling Doula

  • FREE consultation in person or online

  • In-home prenatal meeting to discuss your birth plans, needs of your child(ren), expectations, get to know each other, etc.

  • On-call from 37 weeks of pregnancy

  • Arriving at parents' request

  • Personalized care for your children in your home or at your birthing location

  • Age-appropriate explanations of what's happening (after discussing what you want them to know)

  • Text, phone, or email support

  • Provide resources if needed


Because every family is unique, we can discuss in more detail what exactly this service will include for your family specifically.


Cost: $700

Sibling doula support includes:

Welcoming a new sibling is a big change. I’ll be there to care for your child(ren) while you’re in labor, making sure they feel comfortable and included. Whether it’s keeping them engaged, offering reassurance, or answering their questions, I’m here to help through this transition.

Serving Charlotte, NC, and the surrounding areas.
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Have questions?
Get in touch to get your questions answered, or schedule your free consultation!

parents showing sonogram to big brother
parents showing sonogram to big brother
What Is A Sibling Doula?

I think The VBAC Link says it best: "A sibling doula is a support person for your older kiddo or kiddos." A sibling doula understands birth and children, so they know how to best support your child(ren) while waiting to meet their new sibling. They know how to talk about birth and what to expect in a way that doesn't confuse your child(ren) or worry them.

dad introducing baby to big sister
dad introducing baby to big sister
Sibling Doula vs. Babysitter:

First, there's nothing wrong with hiring a babysitter to watch your child(ren) while you're in labor. If that's your preference, go for it, especially if it's a babysitter your child(ren) knows.

However, a sibling doula has a better understanding of everything that's happening. They know how to answer questions your child(ren) may have. They can offer helpful suggestions to involve them if you want. They know what birth looks like, so they won't be caught off guard by blood and yelling.

They also are comfortable with being on-call and leaving at a moment's notice.

big sister surprised at feeling mom's pregnant belly
big sister surprised at feeling mom's pregnant belly
Benefits of A Sibling Doula:
  • peace of mind for parents

  • inclusion of older sibling(s) as much as you want

  • personal attention for older child(ren)

  • emotional support for parents and siblings

  • support with this big life-change

Frequently asked questions

Can a sibling doula be with my child at the hospital?

Yes, as long as the hospital allows it, I can stay with your child at the hospital while you’re in labor. I will keep them engaged and calm while explaining the birth process in an age-appropriate and reassuring way.

Can you care for multiple children?

Yes, I can provide care for multiple siblings. I’ll ensure all children are engaged and supported.

What will you tell my child(ren) about labor?

This is up to you. We will meet beforehand and discuss what you're okay with them knowing and what you don't want them knowing. We can also discuss exactly how I'll explain things.

Do you offer [specific service inquiry]?

Unfortunately, we don't currently offer [specific service inquiry]. However, we do offer [alternative service] which might be helpful.

How can I contact you?

You can reach us by [phone number/email address/contact form link]. We are always happy to answer your questions.